enlargeourtents wife here
George/American Israelite:
Spot on! I don't know how to copy a quote from another post, but what you said about only an Israelite was to rule over YaH's people is scripture! Yes, there were times pagan nations conquered Jerusalem and ruled over them, but YHUH always said it was because of Israel's disobedience to His law/word.
We recently had friends who kept Sabbath by the moon, but a different new moon than ourselves. Those who keep Torah will understand what I am talking about, others may not, but the father of this family had a virtuous daughter of marrying age, who enjoyed our company as much as we enjoyed hers. We were very like-minded in many ways. She even told me that she was praying and had asked YHUH to reveal to her when the true new moon was, so that she would be able to know if she was keeping the right Sabbath. Up to that point, she had simply been following the new moon her father had decided the family would go by. Well, my husband fell in love with her, our whole family did, and he asked her father for her hand in marriage. We were expecting the man to ask for a dowry and we were ready to pay one. However, that was not all the father had in mind. The man was uncircumcised, not just in the flesh, but we found out later that he was uncircumcised in the heart as well. He would later tell us that he believed himself to be a gentile, and that he is to remain that way, and only keep the laws the gentiles have to keep. (we have not found such laws in Torah) He seemed to struggle with the verses about the gentiles being grafted into Israel, becoming citizens and heirs just like Israel, being members of the same body as Israel, the same laws for Israel and the foreigner living among them, one law for Jew and gentile, etc...Anyway, when my husband asked for her hand in marriage, the father said he would CONSIDER talking more about it, IF FIRST, my husband gave up everything we owned to show that we were not idolaters. He said we could give it all to him, or give it to the poor, but we needed to give it all up if we were going to follow Messiah. He said if we weren't willing to give it all up, we were idolaters. Now, this man probably had 10 times as many possessions as we had, plus he was running several businesses operated by the many members of his large household. He was not poor. Not only did he demand we give up everything to marry his daughter, but he demanded that we also join his family, come under his roof and his rules, and recognize him as our authority, our pastor over the assembly. He said if we did not agree to all of this, it was because we hated authority. We weren't even keeping the same Sabbath, and he was trying to merge us together under him, making us financially dependent upon him. Now, all this, with no promise of my husband being able to marry his daughter, only an agreement to "talk about" "moving forward toward that". How would my husband be able to be head of his own body/family/home in that situation? Would we be pressured to give up our own convictions and follow him instead of Messiah so that we could partake in their financial blessings, so that we could have his daughter added to our family, so that we could have fellowship with his family? Most likely. So we walked away, and it hurt. But praise YaH that He had shown us that an uncircumcised gentile who does not love the law is not to rule over an obedient body of Israel, so in that situation YHUH showed us that He was not putting us under this man's authority, as he rejected the law, or picked and chose which parts of it he wanted to believe and obey, while we embraced all of the law. To willingly subject ourselves to him to gain his daughter would be disobedience to the law, and we would be disobedient to Messiah because my husband would be making her father his head, instead of Messiah.
"...if only you listen obediently to the voice of YHUH your aluhym, to observe carefully all this commandment which I am commanding you today. "For YHUH your aluhym will bless you as He has promised you, and you will lend to many nations, but you will not borrow; and you will rule over many nations, but they will not rule over you.: Deut 15:16
"When you enter the land which YHUH your aluhym gives you, and you possess it and live in it, and you say, 'I will set a king over me like all the nations who are around me,' you shall surely set a king over you whom YHUH your aluhym chooses, one from among your countrymen you shall set as king over yourselves; you may not put a foreigner over yourselves who is not your countryman." Deut 17:14-15
That man, though he has many possessions, is very much in debt, and not in a position to loan money to anyone. We, who do not have so much stuff, are debt-free and have extra to spare. Who is the idol worshipper, who is the slave? Who is the head, who is the tail? We choose Messiah Yahusha as King over THIS body! We pray this man's daughter will be counted among the righteous, that she will soon realize her father's greed and desire for power in his attempt to rule over those who desire to obey Messiah, and that she realizes her father is looking to build his own kingdom, not YHUH's, and that he is not looking out for her best interests.