I come from a background where church authority is considered part of the headship. If you resist it you are considered rebellious and dealt with according. Even if the resistance is based on admitted scriptural error.
That's where they believe it becomes a salvation issue. What is bound on Earth is bound in heaven....
I’m curious if you still think this way or not? Because honestly that’s a terrible misunderstanding of scripture... is this what you are trying to parse through right now?