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[lutherangirl]

I was thinking that maybe in a community we would all bond together and our children would be raised with like-minded believers. They wouldn't get picked on, because all their friends would be raised in similiar families. There couldn't be a "prophet" like Warren Jeffs in the community, plus with so many different donimations represented here, I don't know what kind of "church" we could have?

Then I think of the Amish and how their children aren't enough protected from the outside influences. So as much as I believe in this community idea, I just don't see it happening until we get to heaven. This reminds me of how I feel reading Hebrews 11:13-16 NIV: "All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance. And they admitted that they were aliens and strangers on earth. People who say such things show that they are looking for a country of their own. If they had been thinking of the country they had left they would have had opportunity to return. Instead, they were longing for a better country--a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for He has prepared a city for them."

 

[Mark C]

...plus with so many different donimations represented here, I don't know what kind of "church" we could have?

Such a community might have to have Seven Churches, Michelle!


(After all, He didn't try to write one letter to one bride!)

 

[PolyPride]

I was thinking that maybe in a community we would all bond together and our children would be raised with like-minded believers. They wouldn't get picked on, because all their friends would be raised in similiar families. There couldn't be a "prophet" like Warren Jeffs in the community, plus with so many different donimations represented here, I don't know what kind of "church" we could have?

An open-minded (within reason) non-denominational church

 

[Hugh McBryde]

I'm thinking it's time to consider a new denomination, perhaps this is the way the LORD wishes to bring diverse but Bible Believing Christians together to re-examine the more recent traditions.

 

[nathan]

I'm chiming in finally, as there are a number of us associated with Biblical Families, who have thought about this idea (living closer to each other), for a while now, and have recently started to get more serious about it. There are a number of locations we have discussed, but nothing's likely to be ready immediately. We know there will be diversity, and there will absolutely be freedom for each man to lead his own house as he hears from God, instead of answering to some other authority (prophet, pastor, new-denomination, whatever). And I certainly have no interest in being 'isolated' from the world (I'm in the World, not 'of' it - though being somewhat 'rural' certainly has it benefits). I don't think it's likely to be a buy-land and sell pieces to incoming families situation, just one where some of us are important enough to each other, in wanting to share fellowship, worship, and some family time (schooling?) together, that we want to live in the same general area.

We will actually not be discussing serious plans (or locations) for such a venture in the public forums, so if you are really interested, your best bet is to come to a retreat and get to know some of us there, and see if it's something you might be interested in. Recognizing the limitation of the forums: on the Internet, it's just 'talk', no way you get to know someone well enough, to make this kind of life-changing move. Forming in-person relationships is the first step to making this a reality. (That's my throw-down challenge on making a retreat this year!)

Maybe there will eventually be enough of us for multiple such 'plants' to happen in various areas.

 

[Revgill87123]

Oh yeah, I got that every family would have their own home but still, talk about drama. I think anytime where there's an isolated community of people, there's bound to be drama. Look at those ladies on Desperate Housewives... nooooo thank you!! HAHA! JK.

Ah, I love when I get to meet random people and use my knowledge of sign language. I started doing it when I was like 12. And when the corporate world wasn't all it was cracked up to be I said, "ooooh, I can do this... lets see what kind of job I can get." And poof, here I am. I love it, its a really useful tool to have. I recently got my certification so now I'm recognized by the state of New Jersey and officially bilingual. Awesome, I know.

Yeah but that's any where you live. From the hood to the heights you can have problems with your neighbors.(Being from both I know) I guess being from a place where this has worked, I guess I see things a little different. Also I wasn't talking about isolation That's how a cult gets started. I am just talking about a place where you can live openly about who you are with out the fear of harm coming to you or your family. There are many private communities through out the US. Not even half are religious. They are just people that wish to be around others like them selves. Usually rich people, but some are for religious reasons, others for life style choices. Like I said before though it's not going to be for every one. It is how ever for me. If I could afford to move back to Tonga or Bahamas I would for the communities they have there of people who believe in PM. But we have 8 children so that would be a harsh move on the money. Most people are thinking I am talking about starting some thing out in the middle of no where. I am a street minister and a church minister. I couldn't take being away from civilisation. I was talking at the end of town. Out here they have lots of land for sale at the end of town. I see many people are into kind of this is going to be a cult kind of deal out in the middle of no where. I wouldn't want any thing like that. Jones town, the flds and so on were enough.

 

[The Revolting Man]

Well since everyone is interested, it appears that there are a number of us in the north Georgia/South Carolina area. Its a beautiful area but jobs are a little hard to come by even in good times.

 

[PolyPride]

Well since everyone is interested, it appears that there are a number of us in the north Georgia/South Carolina area. Its a beautiful area but jobs are a little hard to come by even in good times.

It would be easier if everyone just close their eyes and think positive thoughts about Washington state or even some parts of Oregon!

 

[PolyPride]

Well since everyone is interested, it appears that there are a number of us in the north Georgia/South Carolina area. Its a beautiful area but jobs are a little hard to come by even in good times.

It would be easier if everyone just close their eyes and think positive thoughts about Washington state or even some parts of Oregon!

 

[The Revolting Man]

Considering how many people replied to this it seems there is at least some interest in some form of community. I guess its something to keep in mind, but unless happy thoughts can make Washingto/Oregon warm then my community is going to be somewhere south of Tennessee! That sounds like a country song.

 

[Revgill87123]

My wife asked if there is good work out there in Orlando? Also isn't the cost of living pretty high? It would be nice to be around some of yall. We are looking to move from where we are at. It would be a long move but hey, we are about helping build a home church.

I'm chiming in finally, as there are a number of us associated with Biblical Families, who have thought about this idea (living closer to each other), for a while now, and have recently started to get more serious about it. There are a number of locations we have discussed, but nothing's likely to be ready immediately. We know there will be diversity, and there will absolutely be freedom for each man to lead his own house as he hears from God, instead of answering to some other authority (prophet, pastor, new-denomination, whatever). And I certainly have no interest in being 'isolated' from the world (I'm in the World, not 'of' it - though being somewhat 'rural' certainly has it benefits). I don't think it's likely to be a buy-land and sell pieces to incoming families situation, just one where some of us are important enough to each other, in wanting to share fellowship, worship, and some family time (schooling?) together, that we want to live in the same general area.

We will actually not be discussing serious plans (or locations) for such a venture in the public forums, so if you are really interested, your best bet is to come to a retreat and get to know some of us there, and see if it's something you might be interested in. Recognizing the limitation of the forums: on the Internet, it's just 'talk', no way you get to know someone well enough, to make this kind of life-changing move. Forming in-person relationships is the first step to making this a reality. (That's my throw-down challenge on making a retreat this year!)

Maybe there will eventually be enough of us for multiple such 'plants' to happen in various areas.

 

[PolyPride]

Considering how many people replied to this it seems there is at least some interest in some form of community. I guess its something to keep in mind, but unless happy thoughts can make Washingto/Oregon warm then my community is going to be somewhere south of Tennessee! That sounds like a country song.

Well I could buy you a jacket - just let me borrow the money for it and we'll be good to go : )

 

[nathan]

My wife asked if there is good work out there in Orlando? Also isn't the cost of living pretty high?

Unfortunately, unemployment here is slightly worse than the national average - construction was huge, and it's been totally slammed. Most jobs outside medical and some tech are not very high-paying (tourism). The only bright spot for someone coming in is housing: it's taken a big hit, if you have cash some condo's can be had for 1/4th of the price 2 years ago. And this week's paper said that 28% of rental apts and homes are sitting vacant, worst in the nation. So the C.O.L. is not very high. (Gas is less than the national average.) It's too urban to be a good long-term location - most of us who are considering a new start, are definitely interested in some land.

BTW, here is just one factor in a search for a new location. Did you know that only these states have no state income tax (and please don't turn this thread into a discussion of Federal Income tax!):
Texas
Tennessee *
Florida
South Dakota
Wyoming
Nevada
Alaska
Washington
New Hampshire *
(* tax on Dividends/Interest only)

 

[The Revolting Man]

I'm sorry Angel, you have to take that coat off sometime. I just can't take the cold. I read somewhere that you can die of hypothermia at 67 degrees and I have no plans on testing the theory! If I can't coax anyone else to my corner of the Blue Ridge Mountains then may I suggest Tennessee. That way I can come visit more easily.

 

[The Duke Of Marshall]

I'm sorry Angel, you have to take that coat off sometime. I just can't take the cold. I read somewhere that you can die of hypothermia at 67 degrees and I have no plans on testing the theory! If I can't coax anyone else to my corner of the Blue Ridge Mountains then may I suggest Tennessee. That way I can come visit more easily.

You're in the blue ridge mountains too? I'm here in asheville. It was 48 degrees last night and it felt really good after having to deal with single digit temperatures for so long. I felt like wearing a t-shirt and no coat.

 

[Revgill87123]

Nevada would be a good spot. Better weather and dry summers not so humid! Hey what about that whole thing Nasa is sayn FL is gonna be under water in like 5 years? NV as far as I know will still be around. It was a joke on the whole 2012 debate thing folks. Just in case how ever West TX,NM,CO,NV AZ and a few other places will still be around. Yall can always take a raft up the Rio Grand and come stay with us should it happen! Then we start the community,lol. But on the real, NV is a beautiful place! Just stay away from Vegas! Vegrants would run rampant all through out the streets!

 

[sweetlissa]

Nevada is dead as far as employment. Northern NV is like at 17% unemployment and Las Vegas is even worse. I lived there up until about 2 years ago and it has gotten worse and worse. My SW is still there and she keeps telling us about the stores and restaurants that have closed. It is very scary there. Texas is pretty good as far as employment goes. We haven't gotten to 10% yet. Many Texas cities have made various top 10 lists. And we have one of the few churches where it is okay to worship with all your wives.

SweetLissa

 

[Revgill87123]

I don't know the unemployment rate is pretty high here too. Times like the is when the "Go-Getters" Show what they have. I decided to become self employed when this whole recession mess started. I am glad I did! I think you can make it any where, you just have too find out what people want, need and will pay for. So far I have done that and done it well! Remember always make use of other tools you have in your life! That's why a community needs too pull together to find what people need and generate a revenue. The bad part is out here and else where I have been, most people don't even know their neighbor let alone trying to work with them. I can sell raid to a bug as my wife puts it. Maybe we should come up with some thing on here business wise to generate income to buy land even if it's just to build a home church as a start. Also to generate revenue to help those we call our brothers and sisters on here for when they fall on hard times. Just some thing to think about at the MO meeting.

 

[The Revolting Man]

I'm sorry Angel, you have to take that coat off sometime. I just can't take the cold. I read somewhere that you can die of hypothermia at 67 degrees and I have no plans on testing the theory! If I can't coax anyone else to my corner of the Blue Ridge Mountains then may I suggest Tennessee. That way I can come visit more easily.

You're in the blue ridge mountains too? I'm here in asheville. It was 48 degrees last night and it felt really good after having to deal with single digit temperatures for so long. I felt like wearing a t-shirt and no coat.

Paul, Cecil and I are all right here at the very bottom of the Blue Ridge nestled in a little valley facing out towards the Atlantic. Its beautiful but we don't get the mountain weather. I'm supposed to be going through Boone sometime in the next month. Is that near Asheville? If so I'd love to get together. I'll be meeting someone who needs to see that we're all pretty normal, even in our abnormalities.

 

[The Revolting Man]

Times like the is when the "Go-Getters" Show what they have. I decided to become self employed when this whole recession mess started. I am glad I did! I think you can make it any where, you just have too find out what people want, need and will pay for. So far I have done that and done it well! Remember always make use of other tools you have in your life! That's why a community needs too pull together to find what people need and generate a revenue. The bad part is out here and else where I have been, most people don't even know their neighbor let alone trying to work with them. I can sell raid to a bug as my wife puts it.

I need a good dose of this kind of thinking. I've been letting myself get victimized by this downturn too long.