Interesting topic and one we couldn't pass up.
We don't attend any church as poly is only one of the places where our beliefs don't fit with the common teachings.
We have found that we get as much opposition (maybe more) to questioning the existence of a burning hell or a supernatural 'Satan' as we do the poly subject.
It is as if you must believe in Satan and hell to be a Christian.
We just don't see that as a biblical requirement, or biblically sound for that matter.
We believe that Jesus is reining now, in the same way that God was king to the Israelites before they wanted a man for a king, and we have found no place where God authorized any man to be in a position of authority over other men (outside of his own household).
The Bible says that the head of the woman is the man, and the head of the man is Christ who is himself subject to the father.
We believe in being humble, teachable, and will listen to the truth no matter who is speaking it. If God can use an ass to speak to Balaam we should be willing to hear truth no matter who or what the truth is coming through. So we believe in a man being subject to Christ and the law of God (which defines sin) but do not believe he should be subject to or under the authority of a man.
A man would not want another man to come into his home and teach his wife contrary to his beliefs, if she was to listen to someone else she would be going against her 'head.' Likewise if a man prays with his 'head covered' (or listens to a bogus authority other then Christ) he is dishonoring his head. (1 Cor 11:4)
A bishop/overseer should serve the people, not rule them. Jesus said "the rulers of the Nations exercise power upon them, and they that are great exercise authority upon them. But it shall not be so among you: but whosoever will be great among you, let him be your minister. And whosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant: Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many." (Mt 20:25-28)
We have a small flock of sheep. Someone that shepherds a flock should protect them and look after their well being.
We don't see pastors/sheperds protecting the flock today, but rather selling them out to the wolves (politicians and bankers) by miss applying Romans chapter thirteen.
They warn people about some 'Satan' (adversary) they do not see, but do not warn the people not to make contracts/covenants with the beast system, which is our adversary and represents the 'spiritual (Motivational) wickedness in high places'. So the people make covenants and sell not only themselves but their children into bondage and become nothing more then slaves to the very wolves that these shepherds were supposed to be protecting them from. I say they are not shepherds, but wolves in sheep's clothing.
In all fairness not all pastors are wolves. I believe about 5% of the pastors out there are actually teaching and protecting the flock.
But what else can we expect from churches that are created by the government.
As long as churches can be bought and paid for by their 501c3 status, they will continue to sell the people out, and make them no more then surfs to the wolves (govt.)
These are a few things commonly taught in churches we have found problems with.
Things we wouldn't have brought up if Poly Doc hadn't started wondering out loud.
This is a great thread and we really enjoy hearing how others understand scripture and differences people have with common teachings.