Excellent. I can run with that sound perspective.
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I’ll let @MsPurple1 reply if she wants. We’re still in the talking about it phase right now, but if it were to happen with the person we’d like it to then yes that would be a benefit. No one would be alone.
LolExcellent. I can run with that sound perspective.
The third wife is definitely easier to attract because she can see the husband and family are already practicing poly and not just talking about it.
Part of what I attracted me to my family was the fact that they were already poly and Steve had kids with both Shari and Christie. With the two couples I met it was questionable what their plans were.
I can with positivity that is not always true.
This is accurate—at least for us. No one’s ever alone.
Thanks for confirming that!
I guess even if I can't imagine adding another....(and none of us are wishing for that) .....I'll trust God if it happens.
I’ve been on this forum for a few months but only ever read posts. I am a first wife and it’s as if you read my mind and heart. Thank you for this post. My husband took his second wife this week on New Years Day. You are right about all the emotions! And I have a long way to go but we were friends first so I think that helps. We don’t share the same house but we live close enough that he can go back and forth for now. I have to learn to trust that his love for me hasn’t changed even though he has another wife. I feel good when he is with me but the doubt creeps in as soon as he leaves. This is definitely the hardest thing I have ever done.
Congratulations to you all for the blessing of the new wife to the household. May God's favour be poured out abundantly upon you all (Proverbs18:22).