What is your opinion on having a sheetach done vs finding your own spouse? I have seen people talking about doing this on like 5facebook groups. I have only heard of them and have never known some one (personally any ways) who has had one. Are they really more successful than people who find their own spouse for a second or even a first wife? I am kind of middle of the road here. Cause I am thinking all the what ifs so to speak. Cause untill you live with some one or at least really have known them for some time, do you really know them? I mean I can understand that people say it's devinely inspired, but we are still human. EEhhh.... Gues the know it all quit coming to me,lol. 