what about men using poly for their own gain

[Jacquline Kleiss]

i became involved with a man online, believed in the shabbath and feast days, but he met another woman a month after me. i came to visit just to have friends for i honored the new woman and her believe of not being poly and his family did not want him. i just wanted to live in this area cuz of shabbath keeping groups and a good area in the last days. however, i recently realized what happened was sexual assult for i do take some heavy sleeping pills. and no statue of limitations so i decided to turn it in and take it to court for to come to find out he has been dishonest and has hurt many women, i am 62 him and his son ruined my car and feel no accountablity to fix it. and the only timed he would call when HE needed something and dont care about others feelings, sorry to say just a very cruel man and i feel he needs to be held accountable for i dont want to see any more women being hurt by him. i am getting flack for this. and i would like to see this nation wide so people can be educated on how this should be done and if possible education to see red flags. i beleive that consequences is love and a lesson to be learned and some people just dont learn until they get a taste of their own medicine. it seems they don't realize their lies, deception and the behavior is abusive or the don't care. any feed back would be appreciated.

 

[steve]

we all agree that abuse is a stench in the nostrils of YHWH.
doesn't matter whether it is poly, mono, brother, sister, mom, dad, business partner, supposed spiritual leader, leaders of the nation, etc.
it is wrong and it stinks.

as far as your legal responsibilities, you are going to have to go to the Lord for leading. i would never presume to take a position on a case that i did not know more personally.

some men are jerks or worse, and poly seems to atract more than it's share of them.
i would counsel any woman to take her time in checking out a man, his family, his history. does he have anyone who will vouch for him? what is their family and history like?
lots of guys put more effort into looking good upfront and not enough into walking the walk.