^_^ said:
as far as I know, the law only minds if you marry according to civil law.
Generally true; well, so far.
(It is decidedly less true when, like Isaac/Israel, a patriarchal example acquires significant power or influence.)
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[A marriage license] puts the state in headship instead of God. You, in return for their permission to marry, give them permission to 'own' your estate, your offspring and your income....
Agreed, ^_^.
The law dictionaries generally define "license" as
permission from a competent authority to do that which, without such permission, is unlawful.
If God ordains marriage, oversees the Covenant, and Writes the Rules, there is no need for 'permission' from any usurper to His Authority. In fact, I think it is very clear that He continually teaches that we are to "choose this day Whom we will serve", whether it is God, or Caesar, and that we "cannot serve two masters". A State license or charter, whether it is for a house, or a church, clearly invites another 'maker' in as head of that 'creation'. There are "adherent clauses" (aka
the fine print) that attach like fishhooks to that 'deal with the Devil'.
In the former Republics, the united States of America, this supremacy of the Creator and His Law was acknowledged by both State Constitutions and that which delegated specific powers to the federal union. The latter made no mention WHATSOEVER about any power associated with marriage, and indeed was specifically barred from "prohibiting the free exercise" of following God according to His Word as one's conscience and the Holy Spirit guided.
There were some other words in the founding document which noted "that when any government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or abolish it." Perhaps that is why God warns us in Revelation to "
Come out of her, My people...be not partakers of her plagues.".
How do we answer people that say we are to follow the laws of the land...
So, I'd start by asking "
Which law of the land? The Supreme Law, or the "traditions of men" that Yeshua so specifically warned us against?
Depending on the level of understanding which follows, I may add additional questions to help clarify the situation as well. Things like "although it's obviously "OK" if it's "only about sex" - and we are inclined to just "use 'em and lose 'em", like most good politicians do (this I usually refer to as politically-correct "
Serial Monogamy :roll: );
or - "Oh, I understand. It's not about "sex" - that's not a problem. It's about
covering - honoring a committment. THAT is what is Verboten, correct?"
or even the "call evil good, and good, evil" reference -- (typically for the self-professed "believer" who picks and chooses from the Word) --
"
So, when the Almighty State blesses something God calls "abomination", like male homosexual 'marriage' - that makes it OK, but when the State condemns that which God sanctions, we ignore Him? Remind me of what that guy who wrote the letter to the Romans wrote in his letter to Timothy, will ya?*"
The answer I would give, Pastor, is that we
DO. We follow both the Law of our Creator, and the lawful government of our nation. Sadly, the converse is not so often true.
Blessings, and Shabbot Shalom,
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* I Timothy 4
Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils;
Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron;
...Forbidding to marry...