because of our families, or our beliefs, even, we are rejected (either completely - ostracized, or to some lesser degree) by extended family members, friends, brothers in Christ, and society at large. What should our response to this be? I've seen it all: full-on 'lone wolf' mode - which I understand: "No one's going to get close enough to hurt my family", and other forms of self-protection. But that's not how we were meant to live, and just because we may be living plural doesn't free us from the directive to be light in the world - indeed that circumstance, along with the fact that we receive rejection and accusation, make it critical, I would argue, that we show God's love flowing through us, and model John 13:35: "By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."