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General Hello from Ohio

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Moist-Bath5827

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Hi Everyone,

I am exploring what poly would look like in my relationship.


I am 34M. I first looked into poly when I was mad at my wife. Red pill brought me through some of my low times. I spent a lot of time angry at God for how my wife was.

Thankfully I am in a better place now, as is my relationship. I have a goal in 2025 to explore this more from a positive light, prayerfully bring my wife in when the time is right. I think I made "the vow", I don't actually remember. I am of the stance that if God wants it, she will release me from my vow. I'm open to having my mind changed on this.

I will explore poly more over the coming months and hope to attend a meetup to see what successful poly looks like.

I look forward to connecting and thank you to those who do the work to run this site and God Bless.
 
Welcome to Biblical Families.... I am a recently converted lurker (from years ago) so I am really the new guy welcoming another new guy. :-)
I hope you are able to find the answers that you are seeking!
 
Welcome to the club!
Moist-Bath5827 said:
I don't actually remember. I am of the stance that if God wants it, she will release me from my vow.
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Probably a very safe position to take, even though it may be inaccurate. Free will being what it is.
 
Welcome! Hope you find some good things here. I encourage you to consider attending the Ohio retreat at the end of January. It usually is a good thing for first wives to meet and talk with other ladies who are on this path. And men,too! You can message retreats@biblicalfamilies.org for the info.
 
Shalom and welcome
 
Moist-Bath5827 said:
I have been thinking a lot about this, thank you for your input. Thoughts on how to work through this more accurately?
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Yah gave your wife this inconvenient thing called Free Will. If she chooses not to embrace the truth, Yah is too much of a Gentleman to force her to.
 
Shalom and welcome
 
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