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Having sisterwives

ASyers41

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I am posting this because I want to brag a little on my sister wives. So I recently got married to our husband in fact the weekend before Christmas and living in another state has made things hard for me the last few weeks of us being physically separated. However, my sister wives have made this so much easier. When we have had video chats they have not told me not to cry but rather have encouraged me and upheld me in prayer. They have taken the time to text and check in on me. Our husband has been a rock as well and been someone I can lean on.

During the whole process, my sister wives have been incredibly nice to me and have tried to help me in any way that they could. This type of marriage can be something so incredibly beautiful and I want to add to this beauty and not take away from it.

My sister wives have made me feel incredibly comfortable in their presence and they answer my calls and text when I have a question. There is no competition but rather a spirit of co-operation as we want a happy home. I cannot think of anywhere I would rather be than with my husband and sister wives.

For those who have not had the benefit of living this yet, this way of life will challenge you to the core of who you really are deep inside, this is not for weak women and weak men. This is probably one of the most challenging things a woman can undertake. However, my relationship with Christ has become incredibly deep. I have learned how to have a deep compassion for others, I have learned just how selfish I can truly be and how to correct that, and most importantly I asked God to remove my heart of stone and give me a heart of flesh. My relationship with the Lord has grown a lot in this process but I know God is in the details. I love my sister wives and I know that they love me.
 
Wonderful to hear! I got to spend quite a bit of time with sweet @MsPurple1 at the ladies retreat and then met Ms Dana in MO. I remember one of the last nights hearing crazy peals of laughter coming from the fellowship hall. Syers card game. Sounded epic.😂🤣

How did you meet if you don’t mind me asking?
So we meet on a polygyny dating website. I struck up a conversation with Dana first and we probably talked for several weeks before introducing me to James and then eventually all three of us started talking and having video chats over many months. I love both of my sister wives. @MsPurple1 is truly a riot and makes me laugh all the time. I am so glad that I found them. We truly believe that God put us all together. For example, she and I have the same ring size, same shoe size, we have similar food likes and dislikes etc. it is almost creepy lol. Yes the laughter and love and all is one of the most amazing things ever. I can't wait to be home.
 
We truly believe that God put us all together.
And that is what makes polygyny incredibly beautiful! I'm so happy for you all!

For example, she and I have the same ring size, same shoe size, we have similar food likes and dislikes etc.
I share ring size and shoe size with my sw too. We have other odd things in common that really make the compatibility level uncommon!
Yes the laughter and love and all is one of the most amazing things ever.
I agree completely! I love to hear my sw laugh....and just love her voice. Having her as a for always friend is a tremendous gift! I am so very blessed!
 
Thanks for sharing, Allie, it is so nice to hear positive things about plural marriage, especially at the beginning which holds lots of adjustments and fears. Praying for you all to continue to bond together and create a wonderful family!
 
Thanks for sharing, Allie, it is so nice to hear positive things about plural marriage, especially at the beginning which holds lots of adjustments and fears. Praying for you all to continue to bond together and create a wonderful family!
Absolutely there will be adjustments but I believe because we talked and communicated uncomfortable things at the start before I was a wife it had only strengthened us. Yes there will be challenges but as long as we keep focused on Jesus then anything can be worked out.
 
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