Excellent thoughts.. had not considered the tribal/family aspect as 'loving communism', but, it is.Quick note: I agree monarchies can have many problems, as we were warned about in scripture. I just see democracy as capable of even greater evil.
I agree regarding tribalism being the better form of government.
However, consider Abraham's tribe. It contained his descendents, and those he had purchased - slaves, or you could say serfs.
And tribalism, within the tride, is basically communism. Everything is owned by the chief for the benefit of the tribe, everyone works as they are able and receives what they require. But this is a GOOD communism, because it is at a small enough level to actually be motivated by love, and be fair and efficient.
Tribalism in a nomadic society evolves to feudalism when people have fixed abodes - now the tribal head owns the land (as Abraham owned all the tribe's assets), everyone works for him, and gets what they need. We now label those people who are not free to leave the tribe as "serfs", and the chief gets called a "lord". But the change in name doesn't mean they're mistreated (that depends on the godliness of their ruler).
And when tribes form alliances for common protection, and appoint one tribal leader to head the alliance, you end up with a monarchy. But a monarchy that is limited in its power, because it relies on the support of tribal leaders / feudal lords, who can withdraw their support and declare allegience to the neighbouring king the moment the first one becomes too oppressive. This system therefore provides natural checks on the power of a monarch.
So I'm actually agreeing about tribalism. I'm just looking at it from a different angle.
We've got to remember that we've been subjected to anti-monarchy pro-democracy propaganda for our entire lives through our education, with the worst examples being pulled out as examples of why democracy is better. But that's also because the gory bits are the interesting ones that end up in the history books. You don't hear much about the kind lord whose subjects all loved him, who avoided going to war, because that's boring.
The elders/patriarchs should, by definition, be looking out for the welfare of the whole and setting course that is multigenerational for the benefit of the family. And, by selecting the heirs into whose hands the leadership falls (think Jacob, Joseph, Judah, Solomon, etc, none as firstborn), the patriarchs can help insure the system is perpetuated justly.
The fly in the ointment is that man is sinful, therefore, every system will inevitably fail, thus the need for checks and balance. That we need Messiah at the helm, is obvious.