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David and Bathsheba?

Re David, Uriah and Bathsheba;
Why weren’t David and Bathsheba put to death for adultery, as required by Gods La
I might be completely wrong in my thinking in this matter, what do you think?
This seems pretty plain to me:
David did sin, and the Lord covered it. I don't see how one can read it any other way.
I have wondered about authority.Who has the authority to stone the king?How would it have been done? Would Samuel have told him to come out into the street and submit to being stoned? Would the palace guard stand down?
Does it say anywhere in scripture that David “committed adultery” or that “Bathsheba was an adulterous”? Does scripture ever lay blame on Bathsheba for bathing in public? If it does, I haven’t been able to find it.
Does it say anywhere in scripture that David “committed adultery” or that “Bathsheba was an adulterous”? Does scripture ever lay blame on Bathsheba for bathing in public? If it does, I haven’t been able to find it.
So that's interesting,...
But it still doesn't answer why David wasn't stoned.
Good point @FollowingHim. I'll have to think about that more.

We had a good discussion in March regarding the David didn't really commit adultery midrash
Over there we have a point regarding psalm 51 where we are told it's concerning the Bathsheba issue and David says "against you alone I sinned" speaking to the L-rd. Adultery is not a sin against "the L-rd alone" it's also against fellow man. I think this adds some gravity to the popular Jewish perspective (and why He did not have to die...b/c it may not have been actual adultery). I always thought the midrash was a bit much but the psalm makes me question... seems a good chance the letter of the law was not broken but the spirit sure was...hence the sever punishment yet David keeps his own life.
Anyone interested in the opinion in Jewish thought that David did *not* commit adultery or *murder* check out the back and forth over there. There are good arguments on both sides. I think the Psalm, however, should make anyone pause and consider the midrashic perspective, at least a bit as it does answer a lot of problem.

Here is the talmudic reference which records the protocol for men to divorce their wives before going to war [Tractate Ketuboth 9A-9B].
 
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Absolutely. Where’s your other witnesses to that.

Where are my witnesses? Witnesses to what? I have pushed the sarcasm and humor to it's point of diminishing return in this thread so I'm not being either when I ask if you're wanting me to provide witnesses that something doesn't exist or isn't so?
 
As far as the “contract” goes, you’ll probably have more success if you look for it under the word covenant or testament. Both of which are a contract (hard to believe I know, but try), both of them can be verbal but are typically written, and all three of them are performance based and justifiably terminated by the injured party upon failure to perform.

The best example is the Torah. A specific covenant, initially verbal but recorded by a mediator, stipulating certain terms and promises and penalties between two parties, and severable upon the failure of either party to perform.

A more current model is the New Testament/Covenant (although the whole of Scripture could be utilized). Initially verbal but recorded by witnesses, stipulates certain terms and promises and penalties between the two parties, (Christ and his bride) and is justifiably severable upon the failure of either party to perform.

Just for the record, IF Christ doesnt fill his end of the deal, I don’t have to be bound to a god that doesnt fulfill his promises. I can justifiably leave and search for one who will. I’m really not too worried about that. On the other hand, If He holds up His end of the covenant, I have nothing to worry about and will never leave because I’m married to the best “husband” ever. And then . . . I’ll be out’ a here! (But with him)

P.S.
The interesting thing about all this is that our written covenant, just like a ketubah, is specifically owned by the bride, contains all the terms and conditions of the contract, and should be thoroughly read and understood by those within the covenant. Funny thing is, the Bridegroom didnt physically write any of it.

Not. Not only not but nope. All of this is very interesting speculation but that's all it is. And it makes very clear and simple passages very complicated and it also raises the bride (church) in to a position of judgement and even power over the husband (Christ). You would need some iron clad, unmistakable "Thou Shalls.." to make these claims.
 
Where are my witnesses? Witnesses to what? I have pushed the sarcasm and humor to it's point of diminishing return in this thread so I'm not being either when I ask if you're wanting me to provide witnesses that something doesn't exist or isn't so?

Everything in Scripture is established by more than one witness. If your understanding of the passage is correct , then there will be additional scripture supporting it without any contradicting it.

If Marks version of this event is the only record of the event (Matthew and Luke’s accounts are of a separate event) then you have an account recorded at best by a second hand biographer perpetrating a conflicting interpretation when viewed in light of all scripture, which calls into question either the completeness of Marks account or the veracity of it.

On the other hand, if Marks account is the same event as recorded in Matthew and Luke, you have additional witnesses to the exact event and conversation. This however brings up the issue of the how comprehensive and verbatim Marks account is because Matthew’s account has several more pertinent details. As Matthew is the only eyewitness who personally recorded the conversation, I tend to believe that his is more likely to be an accurate rendering of the conversation. Mark and Luke were both second or third hand records of the conversation.
 
Everything in Scripture is established by more than one witness.
Hence you need two witness to bring charges. (Thread and disagreement relevant.) It can be an the context of an event but always for biblical instruction.
One of the reasons mitzvots are stated then repeated in at least 2 other books in Torah.

John 8:17
Even in Torah it is written that the testimony of two men is true.

Deuteronomy 19:15
A single witness shall not rise up against a person for any offense or sin that he commits. By the word of two or three witnesses is a case to be established.

1 Timothy 5:19
Do not accept an accusation against an elder except on the evidence of two or three witnesses.

Matthew 18:16
16 But if he does not listen, take with you one or two more, so that ‘by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may stand.’

2 Corinthians 13:1
This is the third time I am coming to you. “By the testimony of two or three witnesses shall every word be established.”

Mark 9:4
Then Elijah appeared to them with Moses, and they were talking with Yeshua.

Matthew 17:3
And behold, Moses and Elijah appeared to them, talking with Yeshua.

Luke 9:30
And behold, two men were talking with Him, Moses and Elijah.
 
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Everything in Scripture is established by more than one witness..

Says who? Where is this witnessed to in scripture by more than one witness? And actually explicitly talked about, not just demonstrated in some tertiary, highly speculative interpretation. I know where you're going to have to go to find it and I wonder if you'll even try because the problems are obvious and insurmountable.

If Marks version of this event is the only record of the event (Matthew and Luke’s accounts are of a separate event) then you have an account recorded at best by a second hand biographer perpetrating a conflicting interpretation when viewed in light of all scripture, which calls into question either the completeness of Marks account or the veracity of it.

I can never and will never go here. Did you really just say that the Gospel of Mark is a second hand biography that is in conflict with the rest of scripture? Did you think through this statement before you made it? If the Bible is the flawed work of man's hands then this whole endeavor is a pointless waste of time. If God can't write a book then He can't save our souls. It's that simple. If He can't accurately convey His instructions to us why in the hell would we ever try to figure out how to please Him? The very basis of your statement here shows that you can't trust man's attempt at figuring it out, it's secondhand, conflicting biography. And that's even when it originated within a 100 years of the events it apparently doesn't accurately describe. How do you propose that you can discern the truth of what God failed to accurately tell you from your perch 2,000 years away? That's a ridiculous statement. Either God delivered it to us the way He wanted us to have it or the whole thing is a giant waste of time.

IOn the other hand, if Marks account is the same event as recorded in Matthew and Luke, you have additional witnesses to the exact event and conversation. This however brings up the issue of the how comprehensive and verbatim Marks account is because Matthew’s account has several more pertinent details. As Matthew is the only eyewitness who personally recorded the conversation, I tend to believe that his is more likely to be an accurate rendering of the conversation. Mark and Luke were both second or third hand records of the conversation.

You seem to have ingested some more modern ideas in all your reading of ancient literature. None of the Gospel's authorship is attested to in the text. In fact many scholars believe the Gospel of Matthew drew heavily from Mark, not that I trust scholars but what you're saying doesn't even line up with the modern constructionist views.

It doesn't matter though because whoever was holding the pen, an Almighty God was supplying the Words. That God knew when He wrote it that you and I would have this exchange. The God who could create the universe with the brush stroke of His mind is more than capable of writing and preserving a book and all of the evidence we have points to the Bible as we have it originating very early, within 80 years of the crucifixion on one end of the date ranges, and in the form we have it today. If it was the work of man's hands and they couldn't get it right when they were there or knew people who were then you can't.

And a simple, face value interpretation of Mark 10:12 doesn't contradict the rest of scripture. It's this lunacy you've proposed here that is not only in conflict with the rest of scripture but actually literally and explicitly rips an entire gospel out of the New Testament and throws it away as a second hand biography, because you don't see two other witnesses to a direct instruction. This isn't a prophecy delivered in the assemble, these are the Words of Christ!

You referenced the New Testament as a form of this contract that features so heavily in your reasoning. Is this how the contract is to be handled? We can just rip out the clauses we don't like? Is it possible that what conflicts with scripture is not scripture but this rather adventurous idea you've come up with? It's the idea that a woman can initiate a divorce and remarry that is in conflict with Mark 10:12. Mark 10:12 is not in conflict with any other scripture. So what should change then? The make up of the New Testament or your pet theory something God only allows hard hearted men to do is also now permissible to women who feel they've been mistreated?

Because at the end of the day that's what you're saying. You're saying that a woman has the ability to decide that a man has not fulfilled his obligations to her and she's free to leave. How is that not the feminist system we're all fighting? How is that not the modern church's stand? What separates this idea from what the secularists and unbelievers teach? I don't understand how you took passages about God divorcing an adulterous wife and came up with permission for an angry woman to divorce her husband. Mind boggling.
 
Hence you need two witness to bring charges. (Thread and disagreement relevant.) It can be an the context of an event but always for biblical instruction.

John 8:17
Even in Torah it is written that the testimony of two men is true.

Deuteronomy 19:15
A single witness shall not rise up against a person for any offense or sin that he commits. By the word of two or three witnesses is a case to be established.

1 Timothy 5:19
Do not accept an accusation against an elder except on the evidence of two or three witnesses.

Matthew 18:16
16 But if he does not listen, take with you one or two more, so that ‘by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may stand.’

2 Corinthians 13:1
This is the third time I am coming to you. “By the testimony of two or three witnesses shall every word be established.”

Mark 9:4
Then Elijah appeared to them with Moses, and they were talking with Yeshua.

Matthew 17:3
And behold, Moses and Elijah appeared to them, talking with Yeshua.

Luke 9:30
And behold, two men were talking with Him, Moses and Elijah.

I'm sorry Kevin but none of these verses relate to the reading of God's Word. You're taking a safeguard God put in to protect against our sinful natures and are trying to constrain Him by it. All of these verses are very definitive in their scope and intent and none of them apply to interpreting scripture. Certainly none of them give anyone the authority to edit the Bible, to cherry pick things they decide are legitimate or not. And the idea that direct commands and instructions must not be valid if they're not witnessed to three times borders on unbelief in my opinion. If it's in there then it's valid. It was witnessed three times, by the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. They all signed off on it. So you have your three witnesses.
 
It's the difference from what were supose to take away from scripture as instruction or what was just part of the narrative. When children were making fun of Elijah for being bald a she bear ate them. Are we supose to teach that if you make fun of a bald man a bear will eat you. It's in the bible that it happened. No there's no other witnesses that support its an instruction.

If we are Going to go to the face value arguement then
Deuteronomy 17:17

Nor should he multiply wives for himself, so that his heart does not turn aside, nor multiply much silver and gold for himself.

Plain reading Kings should not multiple their wives.


Revelation 1:6

And hath made us kings and priests unto G-d and his Father; to him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.


Plain reading we are kings

Plain meaning beleif about Polygyny: Since we are Kings were not allowed to have more than one wife.

This is true then. It's in the bible. Can you dispute it with out calling upon other parts of scripture (witnesses) to dispute it.

2Kings 6:1- 7

And the sons of the prophets said unto Elisha, Behold now, the place where we dwell with thee is too strait for us.

Let us go, we pray thee, unto Jordan, and take thence every man a beam, and let us make us a place there, where we may dwell. And he answered, Go ye.

And one said, Be content, I pray thee, and go with thy servants. And he answered, I will go.

So he went with them. And when they came to Jordan, they cut down wood.

But as one was felling a beam, the axe head fell into the water: and he cried, and said, Alas, master! for it was borrowed.

And the man of G-d said, Where fell it? And he shewed him the place. And he cut down a stick, and cast it in thither; and the iron did swim.

Therefore said he, Take it up to thee. And he put out his hand, and took it
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This happened its in the bible. So it's valid to teach this as instruction about what were supose to do if our axe head flies off into the water, right? Or what moral conudrum is this supose to shed light on?

Do we take away from Baalem and the donkey that if we own a donkey and its being stuborn were suppose to stop what we're doing because an Angel is there about to strike us down if we continue.

Maybe instances like theses witness to the power of G-d and His willingness to intervene on our behalf.

Btw, I had a rooster that talked to me once, thats when I realised I needed to learn about foraging mushrooms instead of just picking and eating some from my cow pasture.

We are told to test all spirits and we do so by finding witnesses in scripture that either support or disprove the spirit. If you only need one scripture to prove the validity then let's revisit Adam and Eve. Without going using witnesses from scripture show me that monogamy the "proper" form of marriage.

It's the fact that scripture witnesses to itself that ties it together that shows us what is instruction from G-d and what is the actions of man.
 
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Deuteronomy 17:17 stands on it's own Kevin. You actually have to start back at verse 14 though. The passage prophesies a time when Israel will have a king and gives instructions on how that king is to act, specifically in this case he is not to multiply unto himself horses, gold or wives or cause the Israelites to return to Egypt. I'm fine with that and even if I wasn't it doesn't matter. It's a direct command. It applies to kings, but only when there is a king since it neither institutes a monarchy or commands one. I don't see the problem.

Your Elisha example is not up to your usual intellectual rigor. There is no command or proscription in either story. There is no "Thou shall or Thou shall not". There are lessons and illustrations to be gleaned but no direct instruction. This certainly could be used as a "witness" to back up other ideas or teachings but there is no direct action that could ever be based on these events.

I'm not saying that there is no value in "witnesses" in reading scripture. That wasn't the proposition on the table. What was claimed was that a clear instruction, Mark 10:12, wasn't valid because it didn't have two witnesses. That is a falsehood and has to be called out. We can't make up a principle, even if it has merit and is useful, and then use it to negate Scripture.

As far as testing spirits goes, that doesn't apply in this case. No one was talking about using the scripture to test spirits. What was suggested was that we use a principle of witnesses to test scripture. It's not too far of a leap to say that we were talking about completely flipping that instruction to use spirits to test scripture. That's very dangerous ground to be treading.

As far as Adam and Eve go I freely admit that the monogamy only crowd would have a powerful argument if that was the only scripture we had on marriage. But consider this, we really only have one witness to the story of Adam and Eve. All of the other references we see in the Bible are simply referring back to that Genesis account. And the same could be said about many, many things. The Torah itself was only delivered to Moses. He brought it down to the Israelites himself. We only have his word that it's what God really told him. How do we know that Jesus is the Son of God? He told us and God told us but since they're somehow one and the same has that really been verified by a witness? Do we have corroboration that Jesus is the Son of God? Peter thought so but he got it from the same single source we did, Jesus/God Himself.

So as far as I can tell this idea of God and Scripture needing witnesses belongs in the same category as THE CONTRACT. It sounds good, and it would probably sound good on paper; but it's not on paper. At least not anywhere that I've seen.

If any man wanted to use the principle of witnesses to test things in his life then I wouldn't see a problem with that. It's a good principle. But it's a principle, not Scripture.
 
I deleted what I had spent like an hour writing because I see no Point in arguing if it's principle or scripture you see the commands for witnesses as safeguard to protect against our sinful natures. I see the spirit of the command about witnesses applying to scripture as safeguard to protect against our sinful natures and relying on our own understanding of each verse in scripture.

This I kept because to me it shows the danger of not testing all spirits and instructions and whether it's principle or scripture not finding scripture to witness to its self.

We are also told to emulate Yeshua but told to be meek, he was anything but meek, his interactions with the Pharisee are not that of a quiet, easily imposed on (which means easily controled), and submissive man. Yet so many men allow themselves to be castrated by the church when there were plenty of witnesses in scripture to testify that Yeshua was not meek and that Praus should not have been translated to that word.

This next part I put in because I thought it would be fun to mess with you.

And the idea that direct commands and instructions must not be valid if they're not witnessed to three times borders on unbelief in my opinion. If it's in there then it's valid. It was witnessed three times, by the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. They all signed off on it. So you have your three witnesses.
Matthew 23
Then Yeshua spoke to the crowds and to His disciples, saying, “The Torah scholars and Pharisees sit on the seat of Moses. So whatever they tell you, do and observe. [direct command from Jesus to do and observe what the Pharisee tell you to do, you know all those traditions of man]But don’t do what they do; for what they say, they do not do.[direct command to not act them and just say you follow the traditions of man but actually do them]

Sooo...... according to you, its in there so its valid and since it's a direct command theres no need to to test the spirit of it and find witnesses that support it or disprove it. It was witnessed three times, by the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. He goes on to call them out on a numerous things but never goes back on that statement.
 
. I see the spirit of the command about witnesses applying to scripture as safeguard to protect against our sinful natures and relying on our own understanding of each verse in scripture. .

I can't go there Kevin. If you need to be protected from the Word of God I would consider reevaluating your adherence to it at all. And the letter of the commands about witnesses is always directed towards man. We need witnesses. I can't imagine God ever needing a witness.

We are also told to emulate Yeshua but told to be meek, he was anything but meek, his interactions with the Pharisee are not that of a quiet, easily imposed on (which means easily controled), and submissive man. Yet so many men allow themselves to be castrated by the church when there were plenty of witnesses in scripture to testify that Yeshua was not meek and that Praus should not have been translated to that word.

You are using a modern English definition of the word meek. Remember two things, Jesus is prophesied in Old Testament as being meek when He enters Jerusalem on Palm Sunday. And Moses is described as being the meekest man who had ever lived up to that point. I don't think your description of meek fits either circumstance. And this is the real danger in how this witness stuff is being applied. You saw a discrepancy with meekness and how Jesus behaved, so you immediately dismissed the instruction to be meek because after all it doesn't fit and there are no witnesses to it. What you should have done is questioned yourself by asking what was it you weren't understanding about meekness that you thought the Bible must be inaccurate on the topic. This search for witnesses will lead us to be arrogant and obstinate. We need the witnesses. God doesn't need witnesses.

Sooo...... according to you, its in there so its valid and since it's a direct command theres no need to to test the spirit of it and find witnesses that support it or disprove it. It was witnessed three times, by the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. He goes on to call them out on a numerous things but never goes back on that statement.

I think if you read the whole chapter you see the nuance, one might even say sarcasm, present in that statement but I probably would have been a Pharisee if I was alive back then so who am I to say.
 
You are using a modern English definition of the word meek
Praus means power held in reserve.

I did an etymological study on the word.

1200 Norse, "gentle, quiet, unaggressive; benevolent, kind; courteous, humble, unassuming;" of a woman,

Old Norse mjukr :soft, pliant, gentle (as in weak) of a woman

Proto-Germanic *meukaz (source also of Gothic muka-modei "humility," Dutch muik "soft"),: soft and supple, easily controled (all referring to the way a woman should be)

Latin Vulgate from mid-14c: Sense of "submissive"

Non of theses means power held in reserve.
, Jesus is prophesied in Old Testament as being meek when He enters Jerusalem on Palm Sunday. And Moses is described as being the meekest man who had ever lived up to that point. I don't think your description of meek fits either circumstance. And this is the real danger in how this witness stuff is being applied. You saw a discrepancy with meekness and how Jesus behaved, so you immediately dismissed the instruction to be meek because after all it doesn't fit and there are no witnesses to it.
The word is anav or ``anaw, meaning "suffering," "oppressed," "afflicted," denoting the spirit produced under such experiences.....humble. It's not me imediately dismissing anything. The instruction to be meek isn't witnessed to. It's me seeing their is a contradiction because the witnesses didn't match up and me actually taking the time to study out the meaning and tracing down the meaning of the words as they were originally used. Time consuming. Nothing immediate. It's called due dilligiance. Doing the work spending time in study instead of relying on others to do the work for you and rest on their understanding. That's not arrogant and obstinate that's actually seeking out the truth. It's looking to G-d to confirm what His will is rather than resting on your own interpretation. When we Relying on our own interpretation that is being arrogant and obstinate.

Your right G-d doesn't need witnesses, we do. With out scripture witnessing to scripture we let our sinfull nature being our interpreter and use scripture to justly ourselves and condemn others with plain readings and strict adherence to the letter.
If you need to be protected from the Word of God I would consider reevaluating your adherence to it at all.
I never said any such damn thing. I was talking about protecting the word of G-d from the sinful nature of man interpreting scripture with plain readings and self justifying beleifs. It's easy for the flesh to cherry pick what to apply here and there when it doesnt to fact check. It becomes easy to self righteously condemn the world for everything that hurts us personaly and justify our anger.
I think if you read the whole chapter you see the nuance, one might even say sarcasm, present in that statement
I have read the whole chapter He's rather blunt in His opinion. You hypocrites, brood of vipers.

I've found at least two witnesses for every instruction ive look at. In no cases have any instruction poofed. I got a better understanding of the word Praus and that the instruction was to be humble not meek. I also found that the verses on divorce and remariage each contribute to a greater picture so are the ones about not eating the kid boiled in the milk of the mother. Each time it's written a little diffrent adding to the picture. The only reason to fear checking if it's supported by witnesses is if your worried that the justification of your beleifs that allow you to condem others may not be scriptural sound. If your need to protected your right to justify yourself in your condemnation of others is so important that you wont hear and study out anything that might jeopardise it, I would consider reevaluating your adherence the Word of G-d.
 
My beleif/opinion stems from that is sin as an act of offence against G-d by despising His persons and biblical law.

Augustine of Hippo says that sin is "a word, deed, or desire in opposition to the eternal law of G-d."

Our actions may be against another person but the sin is against G-d.





It's in the Zohar, Talmud, and even in a few tragic love poems written within that century and a few centuries later. I beleive it is the poems the story originates from and found its way into the Talmud, then later the Zohar.

So I see the historical accuracy as the same as any other none Canon source possibly true, possibly not. If it contradicted scripture I would label it as a great peice of fiction.
Just a thought back again to the idea that Uriah had not consummated his wedding vows with Bathsheba, yet he was off to war. According to Scripture their marriage was already beyond the 1st year since the bridegroom was forbidden to go to war during the 1st year of marriage.
 
That moment you find yourself questioning the integrity of the scriptures is when you know your theology has gone off the rails.
I'm not questioning the integrity of scripture just man's ability to not rely on his own understanding. I've always found at least two wittnesses to show me that i was interpreting scripture correctly or that I was interpreting scripture incorrectly.
 
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I'm not questioning the integrity of scripture just man's ability to not rely on his own understanding. I've always found at least two wittnesses to show me that i wasnt interpreting scripture correctly or that I was interpreting scripture incorrectly.

To keep your theology from "going off the rails" you" establish a matter in the mouth of 2 or 3 witnesses" and you compare Scripture with Scripture because rightly divided--it will NEVER contradict Itself. This is a cardinal principle of both Old and New Testament. You find proof texts.

Deuteronomy 19:15
One witness shall not rise up against a man for any iniquity, or for any sin, in any sin that he sinneth: at the mouth of two witnesses, or at the mouth of three witnesses, shall the matter be established.


Deuteronomy 17:6
At the mouth of two witnesses, or three witnesses, shall he that is worthy of death be put to death; but at the mouth of one witness he shall not be put to death.


2 Corinthians 13:1
This is the third time I am coming to you. In the mouth of two or three witnessesshall every word be established.


Numbers 35:30
Whoso killeth any person, the murderer shall be put to death by the mouth of witnesses: but one witness shall not testify against any person to cause him to die.


Matthew 18:16 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouthof two or three witnesses every word may be established.
 
Praus means power held in reserve.

I did an etymological study on the word.

1200 Norse, "gentle, quiet, unaggressive; benevolent, kind; courteous, humble, unassuming;" of a woman,

Old Norse mjukr :soft, pliant, gentle (as in weak) of a woman

Proto-Germanic *meukaz (source also of Gothic muka-modei "humility," Dutch muik "soft"),: soft and supple, easily controled (all referring to the way a woman should be)

Latin Vulgate from mid-14c: Sense of "submissive"

Non of theses means power held in reserve.
The word is anav or ``anaw, meaning "suffering," "oppressed," "afflicted," denoting the spirit produced under such experiences.....humble. It's not me imediately dismissing anything. The instruction to be meek isn't witnessed to. It's me seeing their is a contradiction because the witnesses didn't match up and me actually taking the time to study out the meaning and tracing down the meaning of the words as they were originally used. Time consuming. Nothing immediate. It's called due dilligiance. Doing the work spending time in study instead of relying on others to do the work for you and rest on their understanding. That's not arrogant and obstinate that's actually seeking out the truth. It's looking to G-d to confirm what His will is rather than resting on your own interpretation. When we Relying on our own interpretation that is being arrogant and obstinate.

Your right G-d doesn't need witnesses, we do. With out scripture witnessing to scripture we let our sinfull nature being our interpreter and use scripture to justly ourselves and condemn others with plain readings and strict adherence to the letter.

I never said any such damn thing. I was talking about protecting the word of G-d from the sinful nature of man interpreting scripture with plain readings and self justifying beleifs. It's easy for the flesh to cherry pick what to apply here and there when it doesnt to fact check. It becomes easy to self righteously condemn the world for everything that hurts us personaly and justify our anger.
I have read the whole chapter He's rather blunt in His opinion. You hypocrites, brood of vipers.

I've found at least two witnesses for every instruction ive look at. In no cases have any instruction poofed. I got a better understanding of the word Praus and that the instruction was to be humble not meek. I also found that the verses on divorce and remariage each contribute to a greater picture so are the ones about not eating the kid boiled in the milk of the mother. Each time it's written a little diffrent adding to the picture. The only reason to fear checking if it's supported by witnesses is if your worried that the justification of your beleifs that allow you to condem others may not be scriptural sound. If your need to protected your right to justify yourself in your condemnation of others is so important that you wont hear and study out anything that might jeopardise it, I would consider reevaluating your adherence the Word of G-d.

Well maybe you're not talking about what VV76 is talking about. He's wanting to negate a passage, and thus an entire book because he can't find a witness to it. That is wrong. And if you think you have a spiritual imperative that everything you read in scripture isn't valid unless you can find it witnessed to somewhere else in scripture then you're wrong too.

IF you have a principle you apply to ideas and teachings not directly stated in scripture to try and test them then that's fine, until you start trying to say this is a spiritual law. It's not.

That's all I have to say on the subject. We don't get to define spiritual laws, only God does. I haven't seen anywhere in scripture that He said anything along the lines of, "If I didn't say it three times you can't trust it." If it's in there then I take it at face value. If it's a poem, I treat like poetry. If it's a anecdote, I treat it like an anecdote. If it's a proverb, I treat it like a proverb. If it's a Law, then I at least acknowledge it. I don't check to see if God was really, really, really serious when He said it.
 
One of the things I like most about Personal Bible study is that it is so unlike Public School learning. You don’t have to wait for those at the back of the class to move beyond the basics. Nor is their approval necessary to understand and grasp more complex things.

Well maybe you're not talking about what VV76 is talking about. He's wanting to negate a passage, and thus an entire book because he can't find a witness to it.

And right on cue, Zec would rather waste a lot of hot air and forum space attacking someone (me) for a straw man argument that exists only in his own imagination. If only your reading and comprehension were as advanced as your bloviating, you wouldn’t come to such outrageous conclusions and could save a lot of hot air, or at least be more considerate of the life of your keyboard and your own peace of mind.

For the record, the highlighted portion below is my (perhaps poor) attempt to find out where you’re coming from, not what I believe about the topic.
Perhaps I should have worded it a bit simpler, like;
Was it a single sourced event found only in Mark, or an account that is also recorded and witnessed in the other two synoptic gospels?
My position on scripture is to negate nothing. Scripture was written exactly as God intended. IF Marks account is secondhand and lacking a few of the details, and God preserved it that way, obviously He has a reason for it. Perhaps so that truth seekers will seek additional information found elsewhere about the conversation.


Where are my witnesses? Witnesses to what? I have pushed the sarcasm and humor to it's point of diminishing return in this thread so I'm not being either when I ask if you're wanting me to provide witnesses that something doesn't exist or isn't so?
Everything in Scripture is established by more than one witness. If your understanding of the passage is correct , then there will be additional scripture supporting it without any contradicting it.

If Marks version of this event is the only record of the event (Matthew and Luke’s accounts are of a separate event) then you have an account recorded at best by a second hand biographer perpetrating a conflicting interpretation when viewed in light of all scripture, which calls into question either the completeness of Marks account or the veracity of it.

On the other hand, if Marks account is the same event as recorded in Matthew and Luke, you have additional witnesses to the exact event and conversation. This however brings up the issue of the how comprehensive and verbatim Marks account is because Matthew’s account has several more pertinent details. As Matthew is the only eyewitness who personally recorded the conversation, I tend to believe that his is more likely to be an accurate rendering of the conversation. Mark and Luke were both second or third hand records of the conversation.

So, since you totally whiffed the soft pitch, allow me to present witnesses for you.

In the New Testament there are only 5 conversations about the issue of divorce. 4 by Christ and 1 by Paul quoting Christ. Matt 5:31,32, Matt 19:3-11, Mark 10:2-12, Luke 16:18 and 1 Cor 7:10,11.
Only 2 of the 5 mention the wife divorcing the husband, Mark 10:2-12 and 1 Cor 7:10,11. Of these two, Paul is quoting the conversation as recorded in Mark, not verbatim, but he has all the pertinent points.

In Mark the perspective is that a woman has the ability to divorce her husband without a command in opposition to this perspective, however, if she does divorce her husband, and marries another, then she commits adultery.
In Pauls perspective, it is seen as a command of Christ that a woman shouldn’t divorce her husband, BUT, if she does, she may either remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband.

SO, in Marks account, the ability of the woman to divorce her husband was presented by Christ as a unfortunate and unenviable event, but certainly not out of the question, exactly like history and Jewish culture confirms. And it definitely couldn’t be used to prove that a woman cant initiate divorce per scripture.

I think we are all in agreement that a wife cannot divorce a husband yes?

Worldly, yes. Biblically, no.
Answer: From the oft vaunted Mark 10:12 Overture, Incorrect. A woman was not restricted from divorcing her husband, only from marrying another after, OR divorcing her existing model to trade up to a better model.

It is my belief that the two passages in Matthew and Mark are companion or synoptic accounts. Both of them recording the conversation, but from two different eyewitnesses. Matthew obviously would have been present as a disciple but Mark was not. How did Mark come to compile and record the events that we know as the Gospel of Mark? The answer to this is Peter. John Mark traveled with Peter later in life and recorded stories from Peters messages. After Peter’s death, Mark compiled the stories from his notes and the rest is His story. However, as with one who is a recorder of history, rather than an eye witness there are some variables to the Gospel of Mark as an early presbyter and contemporary of the Apostles in the late first century records

The Fragment of Papias,
VI.
For information on these points, we can merely refer our readers to the books themselves; but now, to the extracts already made, we shall add, as being a matter of primary importance, a tradition regarding Mark who wrote the Gospel, which he [Papias] has given in the following words]: And the presbyter said this. Mark having become the interpreter of Peter, wrote down accurately whatsoever he remembered. It was not, however, in exact order that he related the sayings or deeds of Christ. For he neither heard the Lord nor accompanied Him. But afterwards, as I said, he accompanied Peter, who accommodated his instructions to the necessities [of his hearers], but with no intention of giving a regular narrative of the Lord's sayings. Wherefore Mark made no mistake in thus writing some things as he remembered them. For of one thing he took especial care, not to omit anything he had heard, and not to put anything fictitious into the statements. [This is what is related by Papias regarding Mark; but with regard to Matthew he has made the following statements]: Matthew put together the oracles [of the Lord] in the Hebrew language, and each one interpreted them as best he could. [The same person uses proofs from the First Epistle of John, and from the Epistle of Peter in like manner. And he also gives another story of a woman who was accused of many sins before the Lord, which is to be fount in the Gospel according to the Hebrews.]

Also Irenaeus confirms this
Irenaeus Against Heresies 3 Chapter 1

Matthew also issued a written Gospel among the Hebrews in their own dialect, while Peter and Paul were preaching at Rome, and laying the foundations of the Church. After their departure, Mark, the disciple and interpreter of Peter, did also hand down to us in writing what had been preached by Peter. Luke also, the companion of Paul, recorded in a book the Gospel preached by him. Afterwards, John, the disciple of the Lord, who also had leaned upon His breast, did himself publish a Gospel during his residence at Ephesus in Asia.


So, everything in the Gospel of Mark is true, and factual, and is sourced from an eyewitness. However, you cant use Marks account to create an accurate chronological life of Christ, and to say that he was privy to the entire conversation in question is a stretch when you compare the two.

The interesting thing to me is that Mark records some specific details that Matthew omits and Matthew records some details that Mark doesnt record. (Probably because Peter doesnt include them in his message for whatever reason)
My main point with all of this is that neither were intended to be read alone or independent of the other because both passages have information that the other is lacking. Another great example of this is the Olivet discourse, but that’s another subject. To read the one without the other is doing each passage a disservice and calls into question the conclusions reached if they havent utilized all available content.

For example;
  • Both record the location as being in Judea beyond Jordan,
  • Both record the Pharisees as the questioners initially
  • Only Matthew records that the context of the question was divorce for every cause
  • Both record Christs statements about male and female, leaving father and mother and the Twain shall be one flesh, and what God hath joined, let not man put asunder. However, the order of this and Moses’ mention is inverted
  • The conversation about Moses is mostly verbatim, with a few small variations. Probably insignificant to the conversation here.
But then you get to the interesting part,
  • In Matthews account, there is a caveat to the phrase, whosoever shall put away his wife except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery. In Marks account, as well as Luke’s and Pauls, this caveat is missing entirely. They simply read that a man cannot divorce his wife and marry another or its adultery.
This is not insignificant, and IMO this is neither a mistake or error but if you don’t understand the Hebrew culture in which it is given, or you attempt to approach this “simply” instead of realizing that it is a little bit more complicated than it seems, then by default, this must be a contradiction. You cannot have The man cannot divorce his wife and marry another or its adultery, AND The man cant divorce his wife EXCEPT for the sin of adultery. You cannot have both. .. . . . UNLESS there is such a thing as justifiable divorce.
  • Marks account has the information about the wife divorcing her husband, and marrying another which Matthew does not have, and
  • Marks account shows that this portion of the conversation happens privately, just among the disciples in a house.

So . . . The primary take away from both accounts re this thread, is that both accounts are totally accurate even if incomplete individually, and they must be understood as asked and answered through the context of “for every cause”
While this approach may create great personal anguish for some due to personal preferences or baggage, any other approach that I am aware of fosters major discrepancies and conflicts within the Scriptures and is impossible to reconcile with Hebrew history and culture. (Not that they are the litmus test, but they are also not insignificant.)

Conclusion:
Divorce by either party for anything other than adultery/covenant breaking is unjustifiable and results in adultery if the divorcer marries another. In comparison, I can find nowhere in Scripture where the victim of this unjust divorce is prevented from marrying another, provided that they have a writing of divorcement. In fact, I find multiple witnesses to the contrary. 4 witnesses (1 positive Deut. 24:1,2,[you may do this] 2 negative witness Isaiah 50:1, Ezekiel 16, [you may not because though I have put you away, it was for adultery/ or there is no writing of divorceent] and confirmation by Job 31:9-12 [if I commit adultery, my wife may go “bow” before another]EDIT: Just thought of one more. 1 Cor 7:15.
Divorce by either party for adultery/covenant breaking is justifiable and leaves the divorcer unbound to marry again.
That being said, though they could do so justifiably, God hates divorce and examples reconciliation with a woman that most of us would say good riddance to. Can you give a writing of divorce for adultery? Sure. Two witnesses. Should you divorce for adultery? Nope. At least Five witnesses.

If this helps someone, great! If you disagree and have a reasoned logical, Scriptural approach, that I can question and examine to my satisfaction, without grandstanding, I’d be grateful to hear it. If you disagree because you would rather err on the side of caution, I can totally understand and respect that. If you disagree simply because you’d prefer chattel, and consequently approach Scripture from that perspective, I really could care less what you think you think.

More importantly, if you disagree with my conclusions, but it is because you are actively examining everything in a search for truth, and you’re not there yet or will never be there, I’m cool with that and we’ll just have to see where the Spirit leads each of us. We’ll simply have to agree to disagree. Just don’t think that a lack of consensus on your part equals a prohibition on mine.
 
I actually don't know what the answer to this is. I'd find this conversation extremely useful to read through. However it is descending into arguments that only cause people to become more entrenched in their views, so is not productive for either the participants or other readers. This is very unfortunate.

A major issue is that you're all talking at cross purposes in some parts of this, and perceive greater disagreement than actually exists. I post here to hopefully clarify some of this so that you can avoid arguing about peripheral matters, and get back to calmly discussing the fundamental points - which are important and interesting.

Mark's accuracy
If Marks version of this event is the only record of the event (Matthew and Luke’s accounts are of a separate event) then you have an account recorded at best by a second hand biographer perpetrating a conflicting interpretation when viewed in light of all scripture, which calls into question either the completeness of Marks account or the veracity of it.

On the other hand, if Marks account is the same event as recorded in Matthew and Luke, you have additional witnesses to the exact event and conversation. This however brings up the issue of the how comprehensive and verbatim Marks account is because Matthew’s account has several more pertinent details. As Matthew is the only eyewitness who personally recorded the conversation, I tend to believe that his is more likely to be an accurate rendering of the conversation. Mark and Luke were both second or third hand records of the conversation.
As I understand it, @Verifyveritas76 is simply saying that Matthew, Mark and Luke are all speaking about the same event, and present it in differing levels of detail. Matthew, being an eyewitness, includes the greatest level of detail on the wording (as would be expected), and therefore needs to be borne in mind when interpreting Mark 10:12.
He's wanting to negate a passage, and thus an entire book because he can't find a witness to it.
Yes, I agree it sounds like that's what he's saying, due to the words he chose to use that do imply Mark is inaccurate. I understand @ZecAustin's objection to that. However, I hold that is at least partly down to a poor choice of wording. On a fundamental level, it is reasonable to assume that an eyewitness to an event would include more detail on that event. This does not mean Mark is wrong - the details he wrote are correct - but that the account may not be completely comprehensive and we should ensure we refer to all relevant scriptures when coming to a full understanding. Is that a fair statement @Verifyveritas76?

I see this as very similar to the case of Exodus 22:16-17 and Deuteronomy 22:28-29. On plain reading, Deuteronomy appears to say that a woman is required to marry her rapist, which is difficult to accept. Exodus however states that a father may "utterly refuse to give her to him", thereby giving her a way out. If these two passages are read in isolation, they do not give the full picture. But when read together, with the clauses introduced by both passages applied to the one situation, we can come to a better understanding that appears more aligned with the loving nature of God.

Two or three witnesses
I thoroughly agree with @ZecAustin that nowhere does scripture say we must find two witnesses before we accept something. But I also agree with @Kevin that finding multiple corroborating verses is a very valuable way to avoid misinterpretations - the issue is not whether scripture is accurate (it is), but whether we understand it correctly.

For another example, consider the list of relationships forbidden as incestuous in Leviticus 18. You're forbidden from sleeping with your sister, aunt, father's wife, and all manner of people - but are not forbidden from sleeping with your daughter. If you read that in isolation and wanted to read it in a particular way, you could use that conspicuous absence to justify to yourself the worst form of incest possible. From only that list of incestuous relationships, you can argue that a daughter is forbidden to sleep with her father (v7), or argue that this is written only to men and therefore that verse is irrelevant, and you can sleep with your daughter.

If you however read on looking for multiple witnesses, you'll first find v17 - don't sleep with a woman and her daughter. Clearly that forbids sleeping with your daughter while married to her mother. But what if her mother is dead, is it ok then? Does this mean you can never, or just not at the same time? Obviously we'd take it to be never, but you could argue otherwise. So there's a stronger case against daughter-incest now, but still the possibility that someone could interpret it otherwise.

There isn't much else directly relevant in the Protestant canon, but in a Catholic bible you'll find Sirach 7:24-25: "Hast thou daughters? have a care of their body, and shew not thyself cheerful toward them. Marry thy daughter, and so shalt thou have performed a weighty matter: but give her to a man of understanding." That passage clearly tells a father to not get too close to his daughters, but get them to marry someone else. By the point of this third "witness" on the matter it's completely clear that incest with daughters is not acceptable - every verse has indicated "don't do it" one way or another, and although any individual passage could be argued around by a weaselly individual, the collective evidence of all three verses shows very clearly that such incest is forbidden.

The same could be said for the "husband of one wife" references and their relation to polygamy - taken in isolation they can be used to argue for monogamy, but when placed in context with the remainder of scripture it becomes clear that their meaning is somewhat different, or at least limited.

So we don't need to find multiple references to validate scripture - but whenever a theological point is in doubt, we should certainly find multiple verses if at all possible rather than relying on a single proof-text, just in case our interpretation of that proof-text is flawed (however clear it may appear initially).

MEEK
This was a silly distraction guys.
We are also told to emulate Yeshua but told to be meek, he was anything but meek, his interactions with the Pharisee are not that of a quiet, easily imposed on (which means easily controled), and submissive man. Yet so many men allow themselves to be castrated by the church when there were plenty of witnesses in scripture to testify that Yeshua was not meek and that Praus should not have been translated to that word.
You are using a modern English definition of the word meek. ... What you should have done is questioned yourself by asking what was it you weren't understanding about meekness that you thought the Bible must be inaccurate on the topic.
To paraphrase:
Kevin: "The church says Yeshua was meek and therefore submissive. But He was not submissive, and Praus should never have been translated as meek".
ZecAustin: "You're saying Yeshua was meek and therefore submissive. But He was not submissive, you should have looked into it more carefully and you'd have understood that".
YOU BOTH SAID THE SAME THING.

Now if you all get back on topic and discuss it calmly, this could become interesting and constructive once again.
 
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