Calling someone a fool?

[pebble]

I'm bothered by this because Matthew 5:22.

Contextually, that verse is about unrighteous anger.

Here, where I am, the word 'fool" or "you fool" is a common expression between friends. So is it okay to blurt out "you fool" if our friends say something, well, foolish?

 

[FollowingHim]

Remember that English words do not necessarily align perfectly with the meaning of particular Greek words used in the original text. The original Greek word used here is "moros", which I presume is possibly where we get the word "moron". It means foolish, impious, godless, without learning, useless. It is a very strong word, and may have had more negative implications than our English word "fool" which it has been translated as. By contrast the word "raca" used earlier in the verse with less condemnation means empty-headed, so is less strong.

I think we shouldn't be worried about the particular word, but rather the sentiment behind it.

 

[Courting4Life]

In regards to foolish talk, see Ephesians 5:4

I believe the Word is powerful, and I believe that our words hold authority. That's a few chapters I don't have the time to compose now, but feel free to research the power of your words according to the Bible. An effective example of my own conviction: I've excuses a non believing, non immediate family member from my home for his refusal to discontinue the use of jesting nicknames with my children and foolish talk to "toughen them up to reality". Were I to have remained silent, I would not be rearing my children in the ways of the Lord.

 

[pebble]

Thanks. Learned something.

I'm still uncomfortable with it though and I'm worried about my children learning to do the same. There's this thing called desensitization.

 

[Courting4Life]

I believe you are uncomfortable for good reason. Praise God the Word brought a revelation to your spirit! After that, we need to renew our minds and put away our old ways. Take the opportunity to do your own Biblical research on this one Pebble regarding the power of your words and foolish talk. It'd be great if you could prayerfully construct a written lesson on your findings and post it. We look forward to the good report!

 

[pebble]

That's a good idea. One reason I joined, aside from having my questions answered and doubts put to rest is to have my pre-conceptions, if there are any, shredded to expose the truth or lies therein. It's so muddled in here.

Thanks.