Don Milton's site is not the easiest to navigate, but has many good gems. This is one of them that takes the "of one wife passages" and turns the traditional definition of elders and deacons and bishops upside down. It is interesting(scary and eery) how much our modern western churches are living in a perverted(changed or backward or opposite) form of churchiosity. I have personally heard sermons talking about the elders and deacons being the highest attainment in church and how we should all strive to be like them(don't be polygamous). This reading was a blessing to me.
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