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Am I crazy?

love4me

love4me

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There is a man I love with all my heart and the only thing keeping us apart is the fact I can't have a baby. He told me how much he loves me and has never loved anyone like he has me. The issue is he wants a baby of his own and that is something that I cant do for him..

I was drawn to this website and keep coming back. I feel so comfortable here. Today something inside of me said to talk to him. I told him how much I wanted to be with him and i brought up we could be together and in the future we could bring in someone that wanted to have a baby. That way it is a win/win for everyone. Do you think that the feeling I had was a sign from God or do you think it was more out of desperation? The feeling was a happiness and comfort I haven't felt in a long time.
 
I think it is a beginning. I won't jump to conclusions about it being a sign from God. I will say that you have started a journey with your man that will change your life. You did not say how he reacted to your conversation. I am sure that since you are the one who brought it up, he is probably stunned.

From here, you wait for his reaction. And then you go forward prayerfully. There are a lot of men on this board who are saying, "Wow, what a lucky man he is." You have made a tremendous discovery. Now you just need to wait upon the Lord, being willing to do his will at any turn.

God Bless you

SweetLissa
 
He did say he would think about it. He asked me questions and I told him about this site and I think he even checked it out. If God wants it to happen I believe in my heart it will work, if not then maybe we weren't meant to be.
 
I wonder if he is the man for you. If a man truly loves a woman, why is it so necessary that they put that woman aside because she is unable to have "his child". I have love many children in my life and have never felt that one was less my own because it had or did not have my DNA within it. I understand that you love this man, but I think a man who really loves you would want to be with you regardless of childbearing ability.

SweetLissa
 
When we were only friends I knew how much he wanted a child of his own.. I respect him for that. Being a blood child is very important because its more of an honor to his father and grandfather because they all have the same name..

I guess time will tell and hopefully things work out and if they don't then I know it wasn't God's will.
 
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