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A Synopsis of Ruth

Doc

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Ruth was “of the women of Moab,” but was genetically linked to Israel through Lot, the nephew of Abraham (Genesis 11:31). Ruth had married the son of an Israelite family while they were living in Moab, but at some point, her father-in-law, her husband, and her husband’s only brother passed away. So Ruth had to make a decision whether to stay in Moab, her home, or to go with her mother-in-law, Naomi, to a land she had never known—Judah.

Ruth loved her mother-in-law, and had great compassion for her, seeing that she had lost not only her husband, but both of her sons. Ruth’s sister-in-law, Orpah, made the choice to go back to her people in Moab, but Ruth could not bear to part from Naomi or from the God of Israel that she had come to know. They made the journey back to Judah to the city of Bethlehem, where they decided to settle. Ruth’s testimony preceded her, for the owner of the field, Boaz, had heard of her faithfulness, as recorded in Ruth 2:11: “Boaz replied, ‘I've been told all about what you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband—how you left your father and mother and your homeland and came to live with a people you did not know before. May the LORD repay you for what you have done. May you be richly rewarded by the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge.’”

The custom of Israel was that a man was to take his deceased brother’s wife in order to continue the family line. Since Ruth’s husband’s only brother had also died, and there was not an available male relative to claim her as a wife, she and Naomi would have to fend for themselves. Boaz not only noticed Ruth’s beauty, inside and out, but he saw to it that she had companionship of other females, that she was protected, and that she had times of refreshing from her labor (Ruth 2:8-9). Ruth reciprocated by displaying humility and appreciation (Ruth 2:10-13), which only ingratiated her more to Boaz. So he continued to show her every courtesy (Ruth 2:14-16).

Ruth and Boaz had come to know one another very well, but not in a romantic sense. They came to know each other’s good character, loyalty, faithfulness, and sense of commitment, all of which go into making a strong foundation on which to build lasting relationships and marriages. Naomi reminded Ruth that Boaz was a male relative, a kinsman of Elimilech, Naomi’s husband; therefore, he was qualified to become Ruth’s husband. It was of the utmost importance in Israel to perpetuate the name of every family of Israel, so this gave Ruth the right to appeal to Boaz to fill that role. This is a custom that seems foreign to modern society; however, it goes to show just how important family ties and heritage are to God. This is why Satan continuously attacks the God-ordained family unit.

Ruth had an open mind and a teachable spirit, so she listened to her mother-in-law and took her advice (Ruth 3:2-5). Ruth followed Naomi’s instructions to the letter; she trusted the Lord, and He rewarded her faithfulness by giving her not only a husband, but a son (Obed), a grandson (Jesse), and a great-grandson named David, the king of Israel (Ruth 4:17). Besides these gifts (Psalm 127:3), God gave Ruth the blessing of being listed in the lineage of Jesus (Matthew 1:5).

Ruth is an example of how God can change a life and take it in a direction He has foreordained, and we see Him working out His perfect plan in Ruth’s life, just as He does with all His children (Romans 8:28). Although she came from a pagan background in Moab, once she met the God of Israel, Ruth became a living testimonial to Him by faith. Even though she lived in humble circumstances before marrying Boaz, she believed that God was faithful to care for His people. Also, Ruth is an example to us that God rewards faithfulness: “And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him” (Hebrews 11:6). Even though these are recorded in the New Testament, long after Ruth lived on earth, God’s promises stand for all eternity.
 
DocInFL said:
Ruth had an open mind and a teachable spirit, so she listened to her mother-in-law and took her advice (Ruth 3:2-5). Ruth followed Naomi’s instructions to the letter; she trusted the Lord, and He rewarded her faithfulness by giving her not only a husband, but a son (Obed), a grandson (Jesse), and a great-grandson named David, the king of Israel (Ruth 4:17). Besides these gifts (Psalm 127:3), God gave Ruth the blessing of being listed in the lineage of Jesus (Matthew 1:5).


Brother Doc, what a rich blessing this entire discourse was! Praise the Lord.

Your note above really caught my eye. We live in a day of anarchy and rebellion. Ruth displayed a spirit that is so important for us all today (James 3:17 says wisdom from above is open to reason). She was willing to look up to somone who was older in the Lord than she was and to be willing to follow that guidance. And LOOK at the results that followed! Her GREAT GRANDSON was the King over Israel along with a great name in history, which Proverbs says is something honorable.

I have found that not enough men or women today are willing to find a mentor or a person older than they to look up to in the Lord. As it seems to me, many men today do not have anyone to claim as their spiritual father or fathers. Likewise, many unmarried women do not have an older woman to call or claim as a spiritual mother, and thus they too suffer greatly without getting good advice, counsel, or teaching.

Praise the Lord for men and women who have a teachable spirit. I still to this day regret the past times in my life where I could have learned so much more (and probably have been blessed so much more) had I been willing to listen more to those older than me in the Lord. Yet at the same time I am so thankful for those who went along ahead of me to teach me and guide me, even when I may not have understood the importance of it at the time. The providences of the Lord never cease to amaze me, and like Ruth i'm sure she was so thankful for Naomi as well as the Lord so provided that to her.

What a treat to read and contemplate today.
 
I know that in my life there are at least one or two women whom I can look up to as a spiritual mother and whom I can truly say are actual Titus 2 women! I am so grateful for them and the blessing from the Lord that they are!

It is a blessing which I wish all young women were eager and willing to receive from the Lord. It definitely makes life a lot easier when you have an older woman in your life who you know will teach you things that are right and true and necessary for submission to your husband who is your spiritual head.

God has richly blessed me in this area and it is my prayer that every woman on this board would be willing to receive such a blessing, no matter what your age.
 
Dr. K.R. Allen said:
I have found that not enough men or women today are willing to find a mentor or a person older than they to look up to in the Lord.

Speaking for myself, I have found that few men and women are willing to become mentors for younger people. Several years ago, I felt I needed mentoring and I couldn't find anyone to fill that role in my life. I even went to an elder and the pastor's wife seeking assistance with this. They couldn't find anyone willing to do it.
Blessings,
Fairlight
 
Fairlight, mercy, I am just speechless. :(

That is awful! :oops: Men and women who don't care to take the time to disciple and mentor? That is just downright shameful. :evil:

Huuummmmm.......but then again, now thinking about it, if that person (or another person) was or is not willing to mentor it might be because they did not or do not have anything to give away to another. So maybe it was a blessed protection.

As I think about the passion of the Lord it seems rather odd for someone with the fire of the Holy Spirit in them to be able to refrain from extending that flame to another. Maybe they had no flame to give.

In either case, for those who do not desire to mentor and those who do not desire to be mentored it is a sad commentary indeed. Your story reminds me of a lady that I knew once. She met a man who did not know the Lord. She went to her local leaders in her church and said I like this man as a friend but he needs to be mentored and saved. She asked for help and not a single person would offer to help. The pastor stated he did not have time and all of the deacons stated they did not know how to mentor or disciple. It was a heart wrenching story.

Well, I guess we must then pray for God to raise up a new movement of men and women in this land who will do this very thing.
 
God'sGirl88 said:
It is a blessing which I wish all young women were eager and willing to receive from the Lord.
awsome statement and so true of young men also, i think that in this age we have failed to create an understanding of and desire for this type of relationship. it was something that i never recognized growing up.
and it such a huge blessing to the mentor when it is actually recieved by someone who "gets it"

and fairlight, i am sorry that it was not there for you but i must agree with doc allen in that you could have been led in the wrong direction
 
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