Hi all,
I'm not really sure where to start. I've been on this site before, and I've met some of you amazing people in real life... but it was under false information.
You see, my name is Amanda and many of you know me from the posts that have, in the past, included Wade, Trilby, and Aria.
I want to offer everyone my absolute sincerest apologies for lying to you all this whole time we've been on here. (and also for being so longwinded)
We don't like to air our personal problems, but the time has come for me to confess to you all the deception that I was a part of.
Many years ago, Aria concocted a scheme... I'm not entirely sure where the idea came from (as it was started before I met her)… she decided that she wanted what Trilby had... and that included Wade... so, with the threat of many things, including taking away their home, she started telling people that her and Wade were married.
I met the family when I was going through a rough time and they took me in.... little did I know what I was in for! By the time I found out just how messed up she was, I didn't have anywhere else to go... and when I found a place- she started threatening me and those I care about. (Never had any way of proving it though).
She started an account on this site and started telling people that we were practicing PM, posting things as us and then she decided that she wanted to go on a retreat... I am so sorry for deceiving all of you... For years we had to deal with her violent, psychopathic outbursts.... and she was on the verge of another one... so we went to the retreat. The silver lining was meeting the amazing people there.
I know that after she left and took her demons with her that we should have come clean to you... I'm ashamed to say that we liked you all so much that we didn't want to loose friendships when we were going through that trial, even with her mental instability we loved her and wanted so much to be able to help her....
So, again, I apologize for being dishonest with you all. It was never my desire to lie or hurt any of you, just to keep the people I love safe.
Sadly, at this point in time, she had reared her demonic head again and has come after us using the legal system... one of the many false accusations has to do with the relationship she concocted between Wade and I... I assume that at some point this will gain news coverage (it hasn't as of yet) and that some of you may recognize us... and that you may want to support in hopes of gaining ground... which is completely understandable... and I pray that that day comes soon for you.... but the truth of our relationship is going to come out publicly...
I wanted to be proactive and talk with you all first. I wanted to make sure that you heard if from me... not on the news somewhere....
We are close, and we consider ourselves family... but in reality- I started out with the family to help Trilby... her health was starting to decline and she needed someone with her and they couldn't count on Aria. We became friends... and Wade quickly became my best friend.
Once again, I am so very sorry for deceiving you all... and I know that Wade and Trilby feel the same way. I hope and pray that someday you all will forgive us.
Until then, even though we don't deserve it, we appreciate any prayers you send our way... Trilby just wants her husband back, and I just want my best friend back.
Thank you all for everything you've done, all of the prayers and support and friendship you've sent our way over the years. You all mean more to us than we can say... Our prayer is for true marriage equality to prevail, even if we aren't practicing it.... You are in our thoughts and prayers,
Amanda
I'm not really sure where to start. I've been on this site before, and I've met some of you amazing people in real life... but it was under false information.
You see, my name is Amanda and many of you know me from the posts that have, in the past, included Wade, Trilby, and Aria.
I want to offer everyone my absolute sincerest apologies for lying to you all this whole time we've been on here. (and also for being so longwinded)
We don't like to air our personal problems, but the time has come for me to confess to you all the deception that I was a part of.
Many years ago, Aria concocted a scheme... I'm not entirely sure where the idea came from (as it was started before I met her)… she decided that she wanted what Trilby had... and that included Wade... so, with the threat of many things, including taking away their home, she started telling people that her and Wade were married.
I met the family when I was going through a rough time and they took me in.... little did I know what I was in for! By the time I found out just how messed up she was, I didn't have anywhere else to go... and when I found a place- she started threatening me and those I care about. (Never had any way of proving it though).
She started an account on this site and started telling people that we were practicing PM, posting things as us and then she decided that she wanted to go on a retreat... I am so sorry for deceiving all of you... For years we had to deal with her violent, psychopathic outbursts.... and she was on the verge of another one... so we went to the retreat. The silver lining was meeting the amazing people there.
I know that after she left and took her demons with her that we should have come clean to you... I'm ashamed to say that we liked you all so much that we didn't want to loose friendships when we were going through that trial, even with her mental instability we loved her and wanted so much to be able to help her....
So, again, I apologize for being dishonest with you all. It was never my desire to lie or hurt any of you, just to keep the people I love safe.
Sadly, at this point in time, she had reared her demonic head again and has come after us using the legal system... one of the many false accusations has to do with the relationship she concocted between Wade and I... I assume that at some point this will gain news coverage (it hasn't as of yet) and that some of you may recognize us... and that you may want to support in hopes of gaining ground... which is completely understandable... and I pray that that day comes soon for you.... but the truth of our relationship is going to come out publicly...
I wanted to be proactive and talk with you all first. I wanted to make sure that you heard if from me... not on the news somewhere....
We are close, and we consider ourselves family... but in reality- I started out with the family to help Trilby... her health was starting to decline and she needed someone with her and they couldn't count on Aria. We became friends... and Wade quickly became my best friend.
Once again, I am so very sorry for deceiving you all... and I know that Wade and Trilby feel the same way. I hope and pray that someday you all will forgive us.
Until then, even though we don't deserve it, we appreciate any prayers you send our way... Trilby just wants her husband back, and I just want my best friend back.
Thank you all for everything you've done, all of the prayers and support and friendship you've sent our way over the years. You all mean more to us than we can say... Our prayer is for true marriage equality to prevail, even if we aren't practicing it.... You are in our thoughts and prayers,
Amanda
